Entice a man, don’t pressure a man, to want to see you

May 10

I think I finally get it.

I think I finally understand how to stop losing guys the same way.

Pressure to see me.

Not a good feeling for them.

Enticement works much better anyways.

Feels like a strategic re-alignment in my brain and mindset.

Almost as easily as a train changing tracks.

Is this because my brain is so analytical non/emotional at times?

I don’t know.

But I welcome the change in perspective and awareness.

It’s freedom from the pressure myself.

So there is no pressure to pass along to “him” (them).

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If you had told me at age 27… that at 37 this would be me… I simply would not believe it. Yet it would have been a dream come true.