It’s already too late
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It’s already too late

And that's when I realized how much I do now understand that woman's Reddit post about her ex coming back "too late"… it's not about time, it's about whether there is still value in the relationship, whether there is still a pathway to happiness for everyone involved… and yes, sometimes it can be too late.

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Not giving a fuck is contagious
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Not giving a fuck is contagious

After someone starts living their best life and stops giving a fuck what society or others think of their choices it’s almost like a light comes on (or gets brighter) behind their eyes. They feel alive again from the inside out. They get their “sparkle” back and it radiates off them in an energetic glow.

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It’s Okay Not To Be Okay
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It’s Okay Not To Be Okay

For whatever reason (no family, toxic family, recent break-up, recent loss, loneliness, depression, anxiety, etc, etc) some people are simply doing their best to get through the hours in the days ahead. Please show extra kindness to people right now, even if they don’t deserve it. You have no idea how far that kindness can go.

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First a hobby, then a career, now it’s my life calling
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First a hobby, then a career, now it’s my life calling

My life changed. A path opened before me to have a real voice, an audience, even a pay check. What I DIDN’T expect was to find myself helping heal people and awaken their inner fire and help them feel alive again from the inside out. I didn’t expect to find the most literal fountain of youth, a lifestyle that keeps revitalizing sexual vibrations alive in your soul and keeps your mind and body young.

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The day I got my freedom.
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The day I got my freedom.

It was the day I waited for with gritted teeth and deep soul impatience. The day when I knew I would be able to make my own rules, my own decisions, and not be accountable to anyone for “permission” to do whatever the fuck I wanted. The best day of my life.

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When they learn they are with a lion, not a sheep (being underestimated)
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When they learn they are with a lion, not a sheep (being underestimated)

I know the moment… I see the realization in their eyes and their entire being.

At a poker table it was more obvious… when I outplayed them and they learned I knew what I was doing.

At nightclubs it was part entertainment for me to recognize a slimy manipulative attempt to get me into bed (a guy bought me two doubles at last call) and I’d enjoy the free drinks and then slip out the back.

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I’m going on an emotional diet… from men who are luke warm about fucking me
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I’m going on an emotional diet… from men who are luke warm about fucking me

My issue isn’t with casual sex… it’s that I was upfront about what I wanted out of it… Ongoing casual sex. Not a fuck and chuck. Not a one-hit wonder. Yet that seems to be what I am getting in return. Either the men I engage with are being dishonest with their intentions, or it’s hopeless to find a casual FWB to fuck me more than 3 times.

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Enforcing boundaries… hard but necessary
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Enforcing boundaries… hard but necessary

Sometimes you just have to draw the line about whether you will accept to “feel” this way any longer by someone… instead of trying to get them to not make you feel that way anymore.

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