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👉 Explore my beginner-friendly digital courses on threesomes, sex clubs, and navigating the lifestyle.
Thinking about your first threesome? This course explains what unicorns actually want and why most couples never get picked.
Most people don’t feel out of place at a sex club because they don’t belong, they feel out of place because nobody ever taught them how to act, what’s normal, and how to not make it awkward.
Most single men fail in the swinger lifestyle - not because they’re unattractive, but because they don’t understand the rules and culture.
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Story time! Hear about my experiences in the sex club culture (in Toronto Ontario Canada) and the swinger lifestyle overall.
Usually explicit and not suitable for younger audiences.
If you want to live the life you want sometimes you have to decide to do something that may be uncomfortable but entirely worth it. Going alone to a sex club can be daunting but it’s also freedom to join a lifestyle on your own terms. Let me help mentally prepare you for your first visit to a sex club or swinger club.
Lay with me as I share intimate stories and updates about my life as a single woman swinger (unicorn) in the sex club culture in Toronto Canada.
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Swinger 101 - Let me walk you through the swinger and sex positive lifestyle from my single woman unique perspective. I am as real as they come and enjoy showcasing my "charmingly vulgar" style of speaking.
A 100ish episode sample of my TorontoUnicorn Swinger Educator, Vlogger, and Storyteller YouTube channel where I vlog my life as I explore the sex club and swinger lifestyle in Toronto Ontario.
Sex stories - The good, the bad, and the cringeworthy. Uncensored, unfiltered, and an unleashed TorontoUnicorn.
Short clips on helpful topics including: people pleasing, setting and enforcing boundaries, how to be socially confident, how to dance without fear of judgment, how to mentally prepare to explore a new lifestyle, how to say no politely but firmly, etc, etc.
Some life advice I picked up over the years delivered in my usual "TorontoUnicorn" bold, raw, and relatable manner.
Short life hack tips and tricks to help process the significant pain and confusion of a broken heart and breakup.
Some mental health life hacks picked up over the years delivered in my usual "TorontoUnicorn" bold, raw, and relatable manner.
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Curious about threesomes, sex clubs, or the swinger lifestyle but don’t know where to start? I’ve taken everything I’ve learned over 6+ years and turned it into real, no-bullshit courses designed to help you explore with confidence, avoid the common mistakes, and actually know what you’re doing before you step in.
I just went to Valentine’s in Niagara (VIN 2026) — one of Canada’s biggest swinger conventions / hotel takeovers — and it was my first full hotel takeover experience. I went with my partner, DJ Slim, and we recorded the full breakdown on my Sex and Swinging podcast, plus I filmed a vlog tour (as much as you’re allowed to film before the “phones away” rules kick in).
This post is the behind-the-scenes reality: what it felt like, what was there, what surprised me, what to pack, and why events like this are basically a Willy Wonka golden ticket for breaking into the swinger lifestyle (if you’re a couple or a single woman).
Come INSIDE The X Club & Mermaid Lounge sex club via video tour! The pool is brand new and opened Aug 2025
Curious what the DTF (down to fuck) theme night at Oasis Aqualounge sex club in Toronto is all about? I’ve been many times and have the vlogs, stories, and advice to share with YOU to mentally prepare you for your experience. I share my own insights as well as interviews with men and women who have attended DTF night too.
Have a question, need advice, or just want to share a story with TorontoUnicorn? Leave a voice memo below (up to 90 seconds) and it may appear in an upcoming podcast or YouTube video!
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I documented my first ever sex-positive house party in a vlog on YouTube as well as the pre-party nervousness and anxieties AND post-party debrief in detailed uncensored girl chat podcast episodes. Come along and enjoy the experience with us :)
Hear first hand from REAL women who have REAL wants, desires and fantasies. If you have ever wondered how to pick up women at a sex club I highly recommend you do your research by listening to the actual women who go to these clubs and hear what turns them on, what turns them off, and how they want to be touched, talked to, and fucked.
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I’m officially heading to Hedonism II in Jamaica with Swinkation as a Presenter & Workshop Host and you’re invited to join me. Whether you’re curious, experienced, nervous, adventurous, or just want to see what this world is really like, come explore with me in a way that feels human, welcoming, and completely at your own comfort level.
Come to the Taboo Show in Toronto October 18, 2025 to meet TorontoUnicorn! Details inside
New TorontoUnicorn art proudly displayed on my wall - the picture is actually too explicit to show on social media (story of my life). Luckily you can see and watch a video of me showing it off on my website and Spotify
One of the best and most exciting “adulting” life hacks I discovered is meal kit delivery services.
Get lost in my voice while you reprogram your subconscious mind to level up your mental health, self love and ability to stay grounded and calm in the face of life’s challenges and uncertainty.
Written and narrated by Toronto Unicorn
Watch all your favourite TorontoUnicorn YouTube videos separated into playlists by year published.
Life hack your break up to reduce the blow to your heart, mind and soul. Each episode is a personally discovered life hack to help process the pain and suffering of grief and heartbreak as efficiently and strategically as possible. Learn from others "ah ha moments", discover the path to healing without looking for it yourself in the (metaphorical) dark. Don't waste your own time sinking in grief for any longer than you have to.
Hear all about my single woman journey into the sex club and swinger lifestyle and all the experiences, lessons, and surprises along the multi-year journey that I vlogged on YouTube and podcast.
Shortcuts to binge watch your favourite guest starts on my YouTube channel via their very own playlist.
This video diary was live streamed in 2019 after I overcame my fears of joining the sex club and threesome world alone as a single woman in Toronto.
Mini video podcast series on various self-help topics to help people live an unapologetic life
Click here for the AUDIO only version available via podcast
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The show taught me the power of sexual empowerment and the importance of knowing what you want, even if it looks different from friends or societal expectations. Standing on the shoulders of giants like "Sex and the City," I continue to explore and share an unapologetic, sex-positive lifestyle through my own content.
We could all save a lot of time, effort, and energy if we stop negotiating with surface-level explanations or "good reasons" people give us to explain themselves and recognize that most people are not being entirely forthcoming. It's not even usually personal, it's more about people masking with socially acceptable "excuses" so they don't feel bad disappointing people, to avoid trouble/questions/scrutiny, and frankly to make them look better.
And that's when I realized how much I do now understand that woman's Reddit post about her ex coming back "too late"… it's not about time, it's about whether there is still value in the relationship, whether there is still a pathway to happiness for everyone involved… and yes, sometimes it can be too late.
After someone starts living their best life and stops giving a fuck what society or others think of their choices it’s almost like a light comes on (or gets brighter) behind their eyes. They feel alive again from the inside out. They get their “sparkle” back and it radiates off them in an energetic glow.
In life we have similar moments… moments when we take a specific action and there is no “undo” button. There are no takebacks. There is only what is and what will be afterwards.
For whatever reason (no family, toxic family, recent break-up, recent loss, loneliness, depression, anxiety, etc, etc) some people are simply doing their best to get through the hours in the days ahead. Please show extra kindness to people right now, even if they don’t deserve it. You have no idea how far that kindness can go.
My life changed. A path opened before me to have a real voice, an audience, even a pay check. What I DIDN’T expect was to find myself helping heal people and awaken their inner fire and help them feel alive again from the inside out. I didn’t expect to find the most literal fountain of youth, a lifestyle that keeps revitalizing sexual vibrations alive in your soul and keeps your mind and body young.
It was the day I waited for with gritted teeth and deep soul impatience. The day when I knew I would be able to make my own rules, my own decisions, and not be accountable to anyone for “permission” to do whatever the fuck I wanted. The best day of my life.
I’m optimistic about my ability to navigate this swinger world… feelings and all. It’s all about respect and trust. Turns out you can not be a match with someone sexually anymore and still be friends. And it feels good.
When you finally learn the lesson that someone is unhealthy for your mental peace… it’s time to close the door, and keep it closed.
• 100% polyester
• Fabric weight: 6.49 oz/yd² (220 g/m²), weight may vary by 5%
• Brushed fleece fabric inside
• Unisex fit
• Overlock seams
• Sturdy neck tape
• Silver YKK zipper
• 2 self-fabric pockets
• Blank product components sourced from the US and China
Disclaimer: In areas where the fabric is double-layered (like pockets), details from the inner fabric layer may subtly show through, especially with lighter designs.
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Get your very own Sex and Swinging with TorontoUnicorn mug!
• Ceramic
• 15 oz mug dimensions: 4.7″ (12 cm) in height, 3.35″ (8.5 cm) in diameter
• Dishwasher and microwave safe
• Blank product sourced from China
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This t-shirt is everything you've dreamed of and more. It feels soft and lightweight, with the right amount of stretch. It's comfortable and flattering for all.
• 100% combed and ring-spun cotton (Heather colors contain polyester)
• Fabric weight: 4.2 oz./yd.² (142 g/m²)
• Pre-shrunk fabric
• Side-seamed construction
• Shoulder-to-shoulder taping
• Blank product sourced from Nicaragua, Mexico, Honduras, or the US
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
NOTE: To see the various colour options you must first select your shirt size from the dropdown list
Orgy coordination is a real role. You need to be organized and have everything you may need on hand (condoms, lube, fan page video release consent forms, etc). Now I can carry everything I need hands free.
• 100% certified organic cotton 3/1 twill
• Fabric weight: 8 oz/yd² (272 g/m²)
• Dimensions: 20″ × 14″ × 5″ (50.8 × 35.6 × 12.7 cm)
• Capacity: 6 gallons (23 l)
• Weight limit: 30 lbs (13.6 kg)
• 1″ × 25″ (2.5 × 63.5 cm) long self-fabric dual straps
• Open main compartment, flat bottom
• Blank product sourced from Vietnam
• 82% polyester, 18% spandex
• Fabric weight: 6.78 oz/yd² (230 g/m²) (weight may vary by 5%)
• Smooth fabric
• Mid-thigh length
• Elastic waistband
• Overlock seams, coverstitch hemline
• Blank product components in the US and Mexico sourced from China
• Blank product components in the EU sourced from China and Lithuania
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
• 82% polyester, 18% spandex
• Fabric weight: 6.78 oz/yd² (230 g/m²) (weight may vary by 5%)
• Smooth fabric
• Mid-thigh length
• Elastic waistband
• Overlock seams, coverstitch hemline
• Blank product components in the US and Mexico sourced from China
• Blank product components in the EU sourced from China and Lithuania
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
The soft fabric and flared cut of this skater skirt are just a few of the reasons why it's bound to become a favorite in your wardrobe. The flattering silhouette looks great on any body type, and thanks to the elastic waistband, you'll feel extra comfy.
• 82% polyester, 18% spandex
• Fabric weight: 6.78 oz/yd² (230 g/m²) (weight may vary by 5%)
• Smooth fabric
• Mid-thigh length
• Elastic waistband
• Overlock seams, coverstitch hemline
• Blank product components in the US and Mexico sourced from China
• Blank product components in the EU sourced from China and Lithuania
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
• 82% polyester, 18% spandex
• Fabric weight: 6.78 oz/yd² (230 g/m²) (weight may vary by 5%)
• Smooth fabric
• Mid-thigh length
• Elastic waistband
• Overlock seams, coverstitch hemline
• Blank product components in the US and Mexico sourced from China
• Blank product components in the EU sourced from China and Lithuania
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
This comfortable muscle tank is soft and flowy with low cut armholes for a relaxed look.
• 65% polyester, 35% viscose
• Athletic Heather is 52% polyester, 48% viscose
• Black Heather is 80% rayon, 20% polyester
• Fabric weight: 4.2 oz/y² (142 g/m²)
• Relaxed fit
• Low cut armholes
• Curved bottom hem
• Side seams
• Blank product sourced from Honduras, Nicaragua, the US, or Vietnam
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
NOTE: To see the various colour options you must first select your shirt size from the dropdown list
• Fabric composition in the EU: 88% recycled polyester, 12% elastane
• Fabric weight in the EU (may vary by 5%): 6.78 oz/yd² (230 g/m²)
• Fabric composition in MX: 81% REPREVE recycled polyester, 19% LYCRA XTRALIFE
• Fabric weight in MX (may vary by 5%): 7.52 oz/yd² (255g/m²)
• Double-layered and non-reversible
• Tear-away care label
• Zig-zag stitching
• Blank product components in the EU sourced from Spain, Vietnam, Cambodia, and Lithuania
• Blank product components in MX sourced from Colombia, Taiwan, and China
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
• 82% polyester, 18% spandex
• Fabric weight: 6.78 oz/yd² (230 g/m²), weight may vary by 5%
• Made with smooth, comfortable microfiber yarn
• Material has a four-way stretch
• Blank product components sourced from China
This product is made especially for you as soon as you place an order, which is why it takes us a bit longer to deliver it to you. Making products on demand instead of in bulk helps reduce overproduction, so thank you for making thoughtful purchasing decisions!
A bunch of Oasis Aqualounge wrist bands when I was cleaning out my drawer
Most single women don’t struggle because they’re not desirable, they struggle because no one ever taught them how to navigate the lifestyle without getting burned or overwhelmed.