First a hobby, then a career, now it’s my life calling

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Mar. 3

I started this journey as a self-taught video editor (at age 36ish) bored in a pandemic, oversharing my thoughts, insights and stories on an empty YouTube channel.

I watched closely as I got 10, 20, 100 then a whopping 200 views on my videos! I was thrilled. People actually wanted to watch my stuff. In a way I couldn’t believe it… even if I hoped it to be true. At my highest point prior to July 2021 my top video had about 3000 views total.

Fast forward to July 2021, and many oversharing videos later, a specific personal diary video went viral about a shy nervous girl jumping outside of her comfort zone and pursuing a threesome with a new couple at a sex club. A video that I actually didn’t intend to be public… it was THAT much of an overshare 🤭

My life changed. A path opened before me to have a real voice, an audience, even a pay check. What I DIDN’T expect was to find myself helping heal people and awaken their inner fire and help them feel alive again from the inside out. I didn’t expect to find the most literal fountain of youth, a lifestyle that keeps revitalizing sexual vibrations alive in your soul and keeps your mind and body young. I feel younger at 39 than I did at 32. And I’m not alone in saying that amongst my Lifestyle friends.

I recently played an old-school game of spin the bottle at a private swinger hotel party I hosted. We all got to re-live our youth but this time with consent, non-judgemental friends and a newfound self comfort we could have only dreamed of in earlier years.

This swinger and sex positive lifestyle changed me, in a way it brought me back to life. My videos and podcast are now helping others to find their sex positive tribe. Their sense of belonging. Even within their own bodies.

I expanded into podcasting under the generous mentorship of a fellow podcaster Kathy Kay from Strictly Anonymous podcast. She encouraged me to try this path knowing I was being highly censored on other mediums. I took her “push” and built a podcast. (Actually 2 of them lol). My life is again changed.

Not only am I reaching a brand new audience (I just signed a publishing agreement with an online swinger radio station) but I also got my first paid sponsor. 🙏🏻☺️😘

I am over the moon. Finally I’ve found a place to express my “charmingly vulgar” personality without fear of censorship AND sustain a career doing so. I can take my time to speak and cover topics in more depth than I ever could on YouTube or elsewhere. I can finally be free to be me, and in a way I hope that opens the door for you to as well.

My podcast feels like home and I can’t wait to celebrate all of this amazing swinger and sex positive lifestyle with my listeners in a thoughtful, engaging, blunt and always real way.

My Sex and Swinging with TorontoUnicorn podcast opens up the world of swingers and what it is like to socialize at sex clubs and share sexual partners very freely. I start slow, don’t worry 😉. I explain swinging and why we do it in early episodes. I also share inspiring and real swinger interviews, I tell many explicit swinger stories, and cover topics surrounding sex in more blunt openness and honesty than you may be used to.

If my language and honesty shocks you on YouTube, just imagine what I say about sex when I’m not being censored 👀 and that’s why I hope you give my podcast a chance (even if you are new to podcasts).

You can listen to me in the car, at the gym, doing housework etc and always for free. 💯

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for watching, engaging, commenting, sharing, retweeting, my content. It started as just a hobby, then a career, now it’s my life calling.

I look forward to the journey ahead. I hope you come along for the ride for as long as it lasts 😘

With my whole heart, TorontoUnicorn ♥️💙