I sit here, a 37 year old single women, knowing the best years are still ahead of me. Thanks to the sexually open lifestyle.

I’m sure others my age are happily or unhappily married with many dependents. For them having a family is what they want to invest their energy in for the next 20 years minimum. I never wanted children. I do want a husband (eventually) but it doesn’t even have to be legal. I value my own freedom too.

As a single girl I had a roaring 20’s. I partied harder than it should be allowed to party during college AND university. I spent my OSAP money (student loans) at the liquor store and hosted parties in my downtown apartment that had a full size bar for all my friends every weekend before we hit up the bar seen we were known at... in fact we worked at.

I even played competitive poker and have many memories of feeling hot AF (as fuck) winning the games at an almost all-men tournament. I enjoyed men looking at me... I enjoyed using my eyes and energy/personality to taunt and sexually tease them at the table. It was fun... we all have our tells and we all have our methods.

YouTube: Storytime: when I hustled an all-male poker game in 2007

You would think that a woman at my age, close to 40, with zero plans to have children would be looking at the next 40 years thinking it were rather glim... lonely even. Truthfully i’m not. I would rather live peacefully alone than un-peacefully together with someone. I’m also anti-responsibility and enjoy a life of laziness luxury.

When I discovered this sexually open lifestyle in 2019, by walking into Oasis sex club alone and sober looking to break into the world of threesomes and women, my entire future changed. I found my “tribe”. I found the people I wanted to talk to, the people I wanted to chill with, the people who I wanted to fuck. I found the people who don’t flinch or blush when I bring up blowjobs or ass eating lol. It’s refreshing for me. It’s freedom.

YouTube: Threesome at a sex club in Toronto (my story) ~ my viral video!

Now... at any age and body shape... I can look forward to new sexual experiences, sexual friends, a sense of community and lifelong opportunities for sexual and emotional enjoyment. I can log on to CafeDesire and join a couple once in a while as a unicorn. Amazing. I’ll likely still be doing this unicorn gig into my 60s lol. Why not? Sex can be fun at any age. I look forward to many new sexual experiences (especially certain group experiences) and feel no pressure to “hurry” because I have all the time in the world.

Now I look forward into the future and I smile... i’m excited to see where I let myself go. The emotional chains are off... and the sky is the limit.

Cheers to hot sex and new experiences at any age. 🍷

~TorontoUnicorn