The “forgotten” little girl inside... and the special type of men who love, cherish and protect them

Some men bring out my sweet side

Some men bring out my sassy side

Some men bring out my “watch me whip your ass in poker” side

Some men bring out my adventurous side...and yet some bring out my reserved side

Some men bring out my comedian side (actually this runs through all versions of myself, lol)

Some men bring out a sexual seductress side... others bring out my dominant sexual side

Some men bring out my “alpha” nature (head strong, fearless, will go toe-to-toe) if I feel they are suspicious with bad/hidden intentions

But some men..... a special type of man....brings out the vulnerable little girl inside.... a soft and sweet side that was silenced, lost and forgotten a long time ago...

She was buried under the emotional “armour” we learned we needed after getting our hearts hurt again... and again...and again

She was silenced by every man who told her she was “too sensitive”

She was hidden behind the strong and fierce woman who was busy putting herself through school and learning how to survive in this world....all on her own

She was repressed most of her life because she didn’t know what feeling “safe” felt like...and she learned to live out of a state of “survival”

She was eclipsed by the strong woman climbing the corporate ladder who needed to be aggressive, strong, and a high performer

But some men... a special type of man...bring out the little girl that just wants to feel safe while being held in a loving man’s arms

The little girl that just wants to feel cherished

The little girl that just wants to feel special to her “daddy” dom

The little girl that also LOVES the transition to being sexual with her one and only protective “daddy” from a place of innocence and devotion

The little girl that wants to do EVERYTHING she can to please him... and fulfill all his sexual and life goals

The little girl that wants to constantly impress him and evolve to meet his needs

The little girl who gets her happiness from watching him get his

So to all the men out there who create a safe and warm place to invite out the “little girls” in all strong women.... thank you. You have restored my faith in men.... and in relationships... now that I know what to look for

I will no longer look for a man who doesn’t value and protect the “little girl” inside me that is the source of my genuine but often hidden “softness”. I know to look for a man who would protect her from hurt at all costs. A man who sleeps better when he knows this “little girl” is happy and alright

So to all loving, protective and adoring “daddy doms” out there... thank you for what you do for our little girls hidden inside... hidden to everyone else :)

~TorontoUnicorn

written March 2020

 
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