Can a demisexual life hack being a slut by viewing sex as a sport instead of an emotional exchange?

I take a bit to warm up to new people and establish comfort and a connection before I will know if I am sexually attracted to them. Well being a demisexual is conflicting with my fantasies of ongoing reliable sex and group sex in that my opportunities are limited even though they are plentiful.

Even though I intend for most of my sexual dynamics to turn into ongoing sexy play friends often times that doesn’t seem to materialize in reality. That got me thinking… if I am investing all this effort to establish an emotional connection only to get fucked once…is that really paying off for me? The answer is no.

Since I am more and more craving the physical cock in vagina and cock in mouth experiences, and the odds of a male or couple returning more than once or twice anyways, the calculus has changed for me… at least theoretically. If I can focus on the physical aspects of sex, especially group sex, instead of the emotional ones and I can convince my emotional brain to accept this, then I can and should look at sex more of a sport with other “sexual athletes”.

Although it may be challenging and may cause some conflicting emotions, I am up for the change in perspective and see if it translates into a change in the number of fun sexy group sex experiences I can experience.

So the question remains… can I life hack being a demisexual in order to become a happy slut?

~TorontoUnicorn