The red line (with women)... when we’re done, we’re done
It’s true what they say about us normally forgiving women…. when that red line is crossed it really is over. There is emotional certainty in it for us. There is no more emotional conflict. There is nothing to miss… the guy we missed doesn’t exist anymore.
What do women want? We want to feel special to you.
When I feel so special to a man that I smile when I think about him… it’s like temporary anesthesia in my jealousy energy… nothing hurts cause I feel so good. He could literally have on orgy at Comic-Con on the weekend and as long as he didn’t miss a beat in our dynamic I would be entirely happy for him. Funny isn’t it?
Story time: Misogynistic comments in front of an alpha female on zoom…enter TorontoUnicorn
I objected to the implication that if we didn’t yet secure a man (whether we submit to that man or not) we were somehow “lesser than”, somehow “unfortunate”. I corrected his understanding of “all women” and I explained how I was 37, single, and very fulfilled and happy in my life.